I think you should tell him that he needs to get himself together and fast. he has a child that is on the way........its not about him anymore. and protect his stuff? he cant have that much if he doesnt even want to help provide for the life he helped created. sweetheart pleassssssssse dont be a fool like so many other females. dont deny your baby father the right to see his child but dont put up with him acting like an idiot. At 29 weeks pregnant his primary concern should be his child not his stuff.....u need to focus on your baby because hes not .As a mother and a woman the sole responsiblity is going to fall on you............so do what you have to do for that baby...maybe he'll come around but do what you have to without him. show him that you dont need to put up with his mess. your child needs a father not a brother......okay. good luck